Companionship

A flexible, meaningful connection between two men, rooted in mutual respect, shared reflection, and attentive listening.

The Male Journey Companionship Offering

At The Male Journey, we recognise that the road into deepening into soul work and healthy masculinity is often not one we walk alone. That’s why we offer Companionship - a flexible, meaningful connection between two men, rooted in mutual respect, shared reflection, and attentive listening.

This is not counselling, therapy, or befriending. It’s something older, and perhaps more essential - companionship in the truest sense: the word comes from the Latin words 'com' and 'pane' - "with" and "bread": we nourish each other.

What is the offer?

This is an invitation for a man to be fully present with another. We have men from across the organisation who have volunteered to accompany those who feel the need to delve into personal, emotional, or spiritual territory. The relationship is:

Negotiated between the two men - shaped by mutual needs, boundaries, and intentions.
Supportive of soul work - whether triggered by a Rites of Passage experience or life’s own challenges.
Based on real-life experience - volunteers have faced their own struggles; they are committed to deep listening and creating healthy masculinity in difficult contexts.

Who is it for?

Any man - whether involved in The Male Journey or not - who wants to be accompanied as he faces a specific challenge or wrestle with life's deeper questions.

What can I expect?

An initial conversation with our Companionship Stoker, who facilitates matches between those seeking support and the volunteers available to offer it.
A connection with a Companion who may be a good fit, based on shared experience, personal preferences, or location.
A relationship that may last a few phone or video calls — or continue longer if both parties choose to go deeper.
A mutual, respectful dynamic — no hierarchy, no expectations beyond what is agreed between you both.

How does it work?

Begin by completing the interest form below.
The Companionship Stoker (A “Stoker” is someone who tends the metaphorical fires of our circles - a trusted man who helps sustain focus and flow in our community spaces. In the context of companionship, the Stoker helps initiate and support these meaningful one-to-one connections) will review your request and, if possible, match you with a Companion based on what you share.
Either party can choose not to continue if it doesn’t feel like the right fit.
All Companions are connected with The Male Journey and are chosen for their grounded presence, life experience, and heart-led listening.

Like all men’s work within The Male Journey, companionship conversations are held in confidence - with the only exception being where a duty of care requires action to ensure someone’s safety or wellbeing.

Ready to take the next step?

If this offering speaks to something in you or you have further questions, we invite you to complete the form below and take that first step toward companionship. Whether you’re carrying something tender, facing a transition, or simply sensing the need for deeper connection - you don’t have to navigate it alone.